I think I was born in the wrong decade.
You see, I’m an old soul. While my college counterparts are out at the bars, pounding back God only knows how many shots every other night, you could find me at the yoga studio, practicing and spending time with other cool yogis who like to stand on their heads more than they like to stand on their feet (which sort of goes along with the whole pounding back drinks at the bar thing…just sayin’).
Or perhaps I’m home reading cookbooks or poetry or some corny inspirational self help book while wrapped in a cozy blanket, sipping a mug of hot tea.
Most likely I’m having dinner and wine with friends, all of which are a good 10 to 15 years older than me. Yes, it’s true. The majority of my very close friends are years older. But age is just a number…and none of them look a day past 25
. (My friend Stacy would say “Check’s in the mail, sunshine!” after a comment like that. Love her.)
I have several theories on why that my be. Why did my little ol’ soul age so darn quickly!?
Perhaps my sweet, inncocent soul is just trying to catch up with my rapidly aging spine. I’m probably the only 21 year old who gets an “arthritic afterglow,” as I like to call it, after simple activities like taking the dog for a walk, or doing too many ardha chandrasanas in yoga class.
My other theory (among others…) is that perhaps in a previous life, I was a soulful jazz singer in a some swanky night club. I’d wear a chic black dress, and a sexy, sleek ponytail. I’d prop my self next to the pianist and saxophone player and enchant the crowd with songs like “At Last” and “I Loves You Porgy” into the wee small hours of the morning.
Or perhaps I lived in France at one point, and was madly in love with a very kind man, who was also very madly in love with me. We’d stroll the streets by day, eating pastries and drinking cafe cremes. By night, we’d dine in beautiful restaurants, eating rich food, drinking good wine, and just living and loving life day by day. No sense of time urgency. No attachment to the gosh darn clock. Love would be everywhere, and not a moment would be wasted.
Hey, a girl can dream…
Last night I channeled my 1950’s housewife alter ego. Days are spent running errands, tending to the children, and cooking a feast at the end of a long day. Life would be simple.
I even had the frilly apron, skinny jeans, and red shoes to match my character for the evening…
The inspiration for last night’s menu came from another domestic engineer, Ellie Krieger.
I’m slightly obsessed with all things Ellie, and for good reason. She’s a genius when it comes to adding flavor and excitement to healthy food and I highly recommend both of her cookbooks!
In true housewife fashion (although in my case it’s more like house dweller…my parent’s can’t get rid of me, and I’m stealing all of their food to make delicious meals. Although I’m sure they don’t mind the byproducts of the aforementioned food stealing…), I set to work around 5:00pm and slaved over a hot stove for hours.
Ok, I kid. Ellie’s a genius when it comes to that too. It really is So Easy ![]()
Anyway, I made a few changes to her original recipe (which I wish I could give you, but unfortunately can’t due to copyright reasons). Instead of sodium free diced tomatoes, I opted for the fire-roasted diced tomatoes to add a bit of extra flavor to the dish. I also only used about 1/4 or a medium red onion, mostly because onion and I don’t get along very well. It’s a love hate kind of thing.
Here’s a photo montage of my kitchen adventure…
I rang the bell, summoned the children, and put dinner on the table 45 minutes after I started cookin’.
All in a day’s work!
After a long day of running errands and gossiping with the neighbors, I did what any sane domestic engineer would do…
…finished off the wine of course!
I took the rest of the bottle over to my friend Stacy’s house along with some leftovers from the evening’s bonding session with my old soul, and we had a good long talk about life, and all the ups and downs that come along with it. I’m so thankful for moments like that.
Wouldn’t have my old soul any other way.



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I feel the same way that you do. Everyone my age is still out bar-hopping but I prefer the older, more settled crowd. I like your idea of living in France in a previous life. Can I join?
Love Ellie! The shrimp look wonderful!
Cupcake Chardonnay! That’s the white wine we had at our wedding. Red was Liberty School Cab Sauv which I def reco :)
Love the shoes!
Oh, I can totally relate in so many ways, my dear! Including the fact that sometimes I crave the domestic lifestyle and I share a love for Ellie.
Fabulous.
bec xo
i love this post :)
i totally understand what you mean, even though i am a crazy (not) college student i would much rather go to a nice dinner party than a frat party, well that may not just be me.
happy tuesday!!
I’m thinking of getting that cookbook for my stepmother for Christmas.
I adore those shoes!
hey girl! You are beautiful :) Love ellie as well…Also love those cute red shoes…
Just tweeting back and forth with you now lol and just wanted to say..sorry to hear about this hypothyroid nonsense…it really got me down when I was going through it and experiencing it…if you have any questions..just let me know! I know what its like to be young and feel like a slug… “blaim it on the thyroid” lol
I can TOTALLY relate. I’m a college freshman and my whole HALL goes out weds – sat nights. I’m usually either watching the office with a huge mug of chai or dragging a buddy to the gym. (for some reason, all of my girl friends detest working out, so i usually end up going with a guy)
Heck, even my relatives make fun of me for going to bed earlier than my 10 year old cousin. (I sleep at 10pm everynight, while he sleeps arond 11pm). I just like to get up at 6 for my morning runs :) During new student orientation, i went out a few times, and more than once, I fell asleep on a couch at a frat house around midnight. Not such a safe option….
On a side note, I think i read about pb2 on your blog and i finally ordered some some bell plantation. i got 2 jars of pb2 and 2 jars of choco pb2. i’ll let you know how i like them.
And also, since you’re into yoga, I was wondering if you’re a fan of lululemon?
I’m a canadian and i’m surprised that lululemon is not that popular in philadelphia. if you have’t tried it yet, i highly recommend it.
I love Ellie too! Have her 1st cookbook – ww pancakes are fab.
Totally hear you on this one! I like going out occasionally, but I’d much prefer to chill at home or with a small group of friends!
I’ve been dying to try that wine! If only because the name is so cute. And don’t worry, post-college you will find most of your friends rapidly become old souls too :O)
Jazz singer? That would be a sweet past life to have! :D
Love all the closeup shots in this post–you have an awesome camera!
Looks like an awesome cook book!
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Yeahhh I’ll be 19 in February, and already I feel like I should just skip my twenties. I know a lot of fun stuff will happen then, but I feel the same way you do, I get along with such older people! Going to bed early to wake up early to drink coffee- that’s my motto. ;) ;)
I feel ya sister . . .
Cute!! I love your new layout!
Checking out the cookbook from our library. I am really looking forward to my college freshman coming home tomorrow. She is an old soul who loves to cook and I have been missing her creations. Before she left for school we would have our oatmeal together every morning while she planned our dinner menu and made a gr0cery list for me. Christmas break will be wonderful for our eating habits and I’m sure your mom and dad love having you there to cook. P.S. love the shoes.
Hi there!!! Been reading for awhile, this is my first comment… :)
I am contemplating yoga as it seems to be a wonderful way to relax, exercise, and center!!! Your pictures of your poses are way cool as well…
Just want to say, I love Ellie too… I watch her show on Food Network, and it is hard to believe that such healthy, natural, downright sexy cuisine can be so quick and effortless… and she is so warm and engaging. I’ve caught my hubby watching her show on TiVo…
I love your blog! I’ll definitely be reading!
amaazing new layout. and you are too cute :) nothinw rong with liking to relax!
Carrie,
Thanks for your kind words! And I’m glad you like the blog. Definitely give yoga a try…let me know how it goes! Can’t hurt to give it a whirl ;)
Sandy,
Enjoy your daughter tomorrow! Sounds like my kind of girl…makin’ plans for dinner while just sitting down for breakfast =) Hope you guys enjoy your Holidays.
1. I LOVE the new layout. It’s almost as gorgeous as you are.
2. Your shrimp de-whatever it is = lookin’ good! Slurpee slurp slurp, domestic goddess!!
we are one in the same, girl. Give me a sappy movie, a cozy blanket, and a mug of tea – I’ve got myself a Friday night!
Wow, you sound just like me. I’m always cooking up something in my parents kitchen, much to their delight. I’m the only one out of my friends who cares about cooking, eating healthy, exercising, reading, etc. I just hate that I often end up in bars with them because that’s the only time they all get together, and I would be friendless otherwise. Of course that makes you wonder if friends who only want to see you in a bar are friends at all…
I am right there with you – I’ve always been an old soul, to the point where I think I may even use antiquated expressions. I blame it on being the baby of the family and growing up around adults only (my brothers and sisters are all 13+ years older than me). But even though it makes me feel like a stick in the mud (antiquated expression alert!) sometimes, I’m almost always just as happy to be old on the inside. My liver thanks me, anyway. :)